Q: Misa, why do you call your portrait sessions “moments of care”?
A: Because I am not photographing a face, I am holding a person.
And in a world that has forgotten how to care, this is my resistance.
A Session Is a Moment of Care
My portrait sessions are not about light, or aesthetics, or technique.
Those are tools, nothing more.
The session itself is something much rarer, much more fragile:
a moment of care.
Care, today, is almost extinct.
Everything is rushed, optimized, automated, transactional.
People don’t look at each other anymore, not really.
They glance.
They scroll.
They consume.
And call it connection.
A portrait session is the opposite.
It’s the slowest form of looking.
It is the art of giving someone your time, your attention, your presence without distraction, without performance, without hurry.
Care Is the First Ingredient of Truth
When someone steps into my studio, they bring their fear, their habit, their self-control.
Care is what softens all of that.
Care creates the space where honesty can breathe.
Care is the silence where tension dissolves.
Care makes the room safe enough for someone to drop the armor they didn’t even know they were wearing.
Without care, a portrait is impossible.
Without care, all you get is a picture.
And I don’t make pictures.
I make presence.
The World Forgot How to Care
We live in a culture where:
everything must be quick,
everything must be “content,”
everything must be productive,
and everyone must pretend they feel nothing.
Care requires the opposite:
time,
patience,
attention,
humanity.
Our world has no time for that anymore.
So I make space for it, deliberately, stubbornly, almost rebelliously.
A portrait session is not a service.
It is a moment of human decency
in a system that has forgotten what decency looks like.
Care Is in the Details
Care is in how I adjust the light so it respects your face instead of judging it.
Care is in the silence that lets you breathe in your own rhythm.
Care is in the waiting until the performance collapses.
Care is in the respect that nothing about you needs to be corrected in order to be worthy of being remembered.
This is why my sessions are slow.
Why they feel intimate.
Why they can be emotional.
Care is not efficient.
Care is alive.
Care Creates the Portrait
A portrait is not an image.
It is a moment where someone feels seen without being analyzed, touched without being manipulated, observed without being judged.
This is why I insist on care.
Because care is the only environment where truth appears naturally, not as a performance, not as a pose, but as a presence.
You cannot force a portrait.
You can only care enough for it to happen.
Final Reflection
My portrait sessions are not about photography.
They are about remembering something essential we are losing:
the ability to care for another human being without asking anything in return.
Care is the oldest form of art.
It is also the rarest.
And every time someone sits in front of my lens, for a few minutes, we bring it back to life.
